Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Gravity + Concrete = OUCH

Poor John! He certainly shed many tears, and said "Oowwwww" alot. And there was blood. Lots and lots of blood. This is the worst he's been hurt yet in his two years. But the kid's tough, that's for sure.

Oh, I haven't told you what happened yet?

He fell face-first out of our car, onto the concrete parking lot at church.

Yep.

The only thing that helped to break his fall was his nose. And teeth and chin. Hence all the blood, which came pouring out of both nostrils and his mouth simultaneously. Thank the Lord, we were parked next to a dentist, who took a look and told us that he tore his frenulum. Oh my! What is that? That's the little attachy-thingy that connects your upper gums with your upper lip. His gums still look like a bluish-red mush, and one of his teeth got knocked back. But I took John to see his pediatric dentist on Monday, and she said that we have a 50% chance of that tooth surviving. I sure hope it does!!!

This is what he looked like on Monday, after he was all cleaned up:



John has been his normal self, climbing everything in sight, running everywhere he goes, practicing his balancing acts on chairs and couches and even on his tricycle seat. I'm having a harder time than he is. In addition to anxiously hovering-to-catch-but-pretending-like-I'm-calm-and-collected, my stomach turns and gets queasy every time I look at his mouth or even think about it. I used to be fascinated by all kinds of medical pictures and scenarios. Not anymore, apparently. Maybe because he's my kid. Or I've just gone wimpy. But no me gusta!

Friday, February 6, 2009

Silence Isn't Golden

Silence isn't golden.
"So what is it?" you may ask.

Silence is:
-The kitchen floor covered in puddles of water (that overflow onto the carpet of surrounding rooms), from the countless trips John has made to the fridge water dispenser.

-Crayon drawings on the walls, couches or tables.

-Pages ripped out of favorite books.

-Tissues shredded into hundreds of pieces, and strewn about.

-Makeup on faces.

-All of the CDs emptied out of our CD case and onto the floor.

-Hiding out and eating chocolate candy in secret places.

-Me wondering if someone fell head-first off of our swingset, or into our little backyard pond.


Definitely not "golden". But as much as I sometimes long for a few minutes of silence, I also realize that when things are not silent, I'm aware of where my kids are, and what they're doing. And more importantly, I'm aware that I'm surrounded by life.

I love this time. I love that my kids are here, and we get to spend so much precious time together. I love their noise (and their silence-- which usually equals mischief), because all of these things are signs of life.